Want the ladies to identify you as a "catch" and be open to your advances? Being a gentleman will always increase your odds of winning the attention of the beauties. Here are 10 ways to improve your GQ (Gentleman's Quotient).
1. Pay – When you ask a girl out, always pay. Don’t expect that she is your buddy and is ready to split the bill, unless you just want a buddy. Paying says you value her company.
2. Don’t use coarse language. She might swear like a sailor, but you will make a lasting impression if you use language creatively to get your point across.
3. Be positive. A woman is secretly looking for a rock she can lean on. If you curl up in a ball and whine about how hard work or school is or show other signs of weakness, she can’t respect you, and she can’t love someone she can’t respect.
4. Look into her eyes. Yes, those amazing breasts lie just beneath the eyes. You know it, but more importantly, she knows it, and is waiting for you to act like every other loser and stare at her cleavage. Do it and lose out.
5. Do not look at other women when you are out with her. You have the other 22 hours of the day to ogle other women. When you’re with her, look at her.
6. Take notice of her clothing and comment on how nice she looks. Tell her, “You look incredible!” Stay away from specifics because when it comes to fashion you are out of your league. Do not say, “I love those earrings” because she’ll wonder if you’re gay. One area that men are allowed to comment on is shoes, but don’t be weird about it because she’ll think you have a foot fetish.
a. Side note about fetishes. Fetishes are only cool in the bedroom. When a fetish sneaks out into the light, it becomes creepy.
7. Open doors. Let her go first. She will appreciate it. It also gives you the opportunity to touch her back or waist to guide her in the direction you’re going, and a nice view of her. Be subtle. Don’t offer your arm unless you’re going to a black tie event, but do let her take it if she happens to reach for you.
8. Be gentle. If you have the opportunity to touch her, be gentle and smooth. Don’t grab and grope. You can smooth her hair away from her eyes or help her put her coat on. Tread lightly and she will want more.
9. Don’t compare her to other women you’ve dated unless you really think that she is the most incredible woman you’ve ever met. If that’s the case, compliment her. “You are so beautiful. You take my breath away.” Remember, she’s been an object since she hit puberty. She will sense insincerity.
10. If you do have the opportunity to take her to bed, relax and slow down. The slower you go the longer it lasts. The longer it lasts the more pleasure she’ll get out of it. The more pleasure she gets the more likely she’ll want a repeat performance.
a. Also always have condoms and use them. Do not make her ask. There is nothing less sexy to a woman than worrying about getting pregnant or getting an STD from you. And, if you don't offer condoms, she'll assume you have an STD.
Remember these simple rules and you will increase your chances exponentially. Don’t be a bonehead. Be a gentleman!
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